How to Actually Be Present for and Be Comforting to the Hurting and Grieving over Loss

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The most effective way to be present for and be comforting to the hurting and the grieving over is to be present with them. Even Presidents are affected over loss as President Obama is observed to be present for Vice - President Biden over the loss of his son, Beau. Being present by being with is more important than trying to think of what is appropriate to say.

Times most likely to leave people hurting and grieving include:

1. Loss of a Loved One

2. In Pain from a Broken Relationship or Divorce

3. Loss of Job and Income

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Loss of a Loved One 

Loss of a loved one can feel like personal life is over. A beloved spouse of many years passes away. This can devastating to the spouse left behind feeling hurt, alone and vulnerable.  

People find their way through their emotional pain and grief through the loving care and presence of friends and loved ones. The caring presence of another in times of loss brings comfort to the hurting one left behind.

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In Pain from a Broken Relationship or Divorce 

The violation of trust brings an end to many committed relationships. One person cheats on the other with someone else. One spends all their shared money without consent to do so. One is just tired of the other and wants out to move on to someone or something new. The end of a relationship can leave the man or woman left behind in almost unbearable emotional pain. The caring presence of another in times of loss brings comfort to the hurting one left behind.

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Loss of Job and Income

Loss of job and income can mean many cutbacks and losses. Money previously available to provide security of home, clothes, food, and transportation can be challenged and even lost. People's self - esteem can feel like it is in self - destruct mode. These conditions prompt feelings of shame because of their loss. The caring presence of another in times of loss brings comfort to the hurting who may be doing without things that are necessary for life.

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There is Life after Loss

The experience of loss can be devastating. Many experiencing loss feel as if their world has come to an end. Many do not know what to do or who to turn to. Some feel like they want to die or are already dead. 

The most effective way to be present to and comfort for the hurting and the grieving is to be present with them. When you are intentionally present with someone who has experienced loss, their healing begins. Being present by being with is more important than trying to think of what is important to say.

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